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HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT
HOW TO GET TO WHAT YOU WANT
As you go through life you experience contrast. Contrast is of tremendous value as it helps you define your personal preferences.
When you know what you don’t want, you also more clearly know what it is that you want.
You expanded mentally, now you have a mental concept of how an improved version would look like.
In order to create satisfaction, you will need to start closing the gap between where you stand and that improved version.
You do so by keeping your eyes on that improved version, your preferred version, and take actions to move in that direction. Trying different things to see what works for you. Allowing yourself to fail forward. Learning by doing.
But most people continue to look at the contrast, at that which is not pleasing to them. Thinking it’s the contrast that needs to change.
What you focus on will grow and if you are focusing on the contrast, you will create more of it.
What is, is the enemy of more.
Learn to ignore what is and focus your full attention to what it is that you want to create.
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INVITE JOY
INVITE JOY
Invite joy and satisfaction to where you are now, rather than waiting to be happy when…
When I have a better body.
When I have a more loving relationship.
When I have a bigger paycheck.
The issue when you attach your happiness to a future moment is that “when” is constantly moving further into the future, because you continue to increase your capacity to ask for more and more.
Learning to be satisfied with what is AND eager to create more, that is the key to living happy ever after.
I used to be scared of accepting what is, thinking it would stay like it was forever. But what I realised was that once you accept it and find beauty in what is, the change to what you want will happen more rapidly than when you were pushing against it.
Joy is the key.