FIND THE FEELING FIRST
Do you think that you need to get the result to feel in a certain way?
I need the money to feel rich.
I need the partner to feel loved.
I need the promotion to feel accomplished.
There are 2 issues with the statements above.
When we are using something EXTERNAL to feel in a certain way, the feeling never lasts. Okay maybe for 10 min, but then you have already moved on to wanting something else. Something bigger.
Because your dopamine receptors need a new hit and in order to get that it needs to be even more grand.
Getting the result first is going about it backwards. It’s your FEELINGS that inspire you to take actions, not the result.
Meaning if you find the feeling first you will be inspired to take actions aligned with the result you want to create.
It will just be the natural thing for you. Which will generate the same result over and over again. That’s how you create lasting results.
1️⃣ I find the feeling
2️⃣ I change the way I see myself
3️⃣ I take inspired action
4️⃣ Therefore the result is just the by-product of me being aligned with my identity (the way I see myself, the way I feel about myself)
And I’m not even doing it for the result, I’m doing it because I want to FEEL GOOD and when I feel good the result always comes, it’s law.
#feelings #result #gettingwhatyouwant #howtogetrich #lifecoaching
